I had to come over here to Sexy Mistresses to tell you about this very kewl idea I got from another femdom phonesex operator.
The Lady Calston site sells sex toys that can be controlled over the internet. This seems to me a PERFECT toy for those tease-and-denial calls, among others.

There’s two toys you can [...]

p>It’s such a simple thing, kneeling to receive a collar.
And yet, it’s so profound.
You on your knees, trembling with anticipation, smelling the leather as I slip it around your neck.
This is my favorite collar, a simple black leather collar with a D-ring and a bunch of slots to allow me to adjust it.
And then, the [...]

I suspect there’s a particular reason this is so hot in phone domination yet rarely in real-life BDSM; blackmail keeps it real.
Normally, you call a phone femdomme, she dominates you for a while, then you hang up and it’s over. You might never speak to her again. You might call her back anytime [...]

What is it about these substances that is so powerful that they bypass our sexual orientation, fetishes and fantasies, hitting our sexuality directly and in such a primal way?
When I pass a leather store in the mall, the smell invades my senses causing shivers to run up and down my spine. There’s little that can [...]

Ever wanted a femdom to choke you with her strapon? Or would you prefer a dominantrix who shoves her dildo up your ass? Or have you progressed to wanting a femdomme who forces you to service a real cock for her pleasure?