I had to come over here to Sexy Mistresses to tell you about this very kewl idea I got from another femdom phonesex operator. The Lady Calston site sells sex toys that can be controlled over the internet. This seems to me a PERFECT toy for those tease-and-denial calls, among others. There’s two toys you [...]

It’s such a simple thing, kneeling to receive a collar. And yet, it’s so profound. You on your knees, trembling with anticipation, smelling the leather as I slip it around your neck. This is my favorite collar, a simple black leather collar with a D-ring and a bunch of slots to allow me to adjust [...]

I suspect there’s a particular reason this is so hot in phone domination yet rarely in real-life BDSM; blackmail keeps it real. Normally, you call a phone femdomme, she dominates you for a while, then you hang up and it’s over. You might never speak to her again. You might call her back anytime she’s [...]

What is it about these substances that is so powerful that they bypass our sexual orientation, fetishes and fantasies, hitting our sexuality directly and in such a primal way? When I pass a leather store in the mall, the smell invades my senses causing shivers to run up and down my spine. There’s little that [...]

Ever wanted a femdom to choke you with her strapon? Or would you prefer a dominantrix who shoves her dildo up your ass? Or have you progressed to wanting a femdomme who forces you to service a real cock for her pleasure?