I suspect there’s a particular reason this is so hot in phone domination yet rarely in real-life BDSM; blackmail keeps it real.

Normally, you call a phone femdomme, she dominates you for a while, then you hang up and it’s over. You might never speak to her again. You might call her back anytime she’s available, at your own convenience. But there’s really nothing holding you to her after the call. You don’t really submit; she doesn’t really have any control beyond the phone call.

With the blackmail fetish, there is a real connection. She has real control over you – even when you’re not on a call, when you’re not aroused, when you’re not hard.

Let me tell you how I recently inducted a beginner into blackmail. We set up an agreement, that we’d do this for one month. I’ve promised to delete all his information at the end of one month unless he asks me not to the week before.

What does this mean? This means for thirty days, I have real control over him. He has to obey or suffer real consequences. He feels my domination even when he wishes it were otherwise.

Traditionally, blackmail means money. But there is a lot a creative domina can do when blackmailing you besides just make you push her tribute buttons and buy her pics. Blackmail isn’t necessarily related to financial domination, though it certainly can be.

The real point is that it extends my control, makes the domination real, thereby allowing me to take you further into the depths of your fantasies than you’d normally dare.

In short, you normally have an “out” if things go too far, too fast, you can always wimp out and hang up. With blackmail, you are completly at my mercy. I can be merciful, I have a strong maternal side, I can be supportive and understanding.

But I’m also a bitch and I do not brook disobedience from the likes of you.

You will obey.

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